Choosing Me: A Women’s Wisdom Circle
A 3 Month Experience Starting Feb 18, 2026
Stop living under the rules and roles you feel chained to – out of loyalty, obligation, or guilt.
A 3-month guided wisdom circle for women who are done living by who they needed to be —
and ready to live in alignment with what they actually want.
You didn’t lose yourself…
You became who you needed to be in order to belong.
Many women reach a point where they say,
“I don’t even know who I am anymore.”
If that’s you, you’re not alone — and you’re not broken.
You aren’t disconnected from yourself because you’re lost.
You’re disconnected because you’ve been obedient to rules you never consciously agreed to.
Rules like:
▷ Be nice
▷ Don’t rock the boat
▷ Don’t be too much
▷ Be grateful
▷ Keep the peace
Over time, those rules stopped being choices and started becoming your identity.
The Stories That Kept Those Rules in Place…
Along the way, you developed stories that made those rules feel non-negotiable:
“This is just who I am.”
“It’s selfish to want more.”
“I should be further along.”
“Other people are more important.”
“I should be happy with what I’ve got.”
“I’m the glue that holds everything together.”
Until these stories are named, “choosing me” can feel scary, wrong, or selfish — because it feels like breaking an unwritten rule.
What This Circle Is Really About
This is not about fixing yourself.
And it’s not about becoming a better, improved version of you.
It’s about recognizing the unwritten rules, roles, and identity contracts you’ve been living under — many of them inherited, modeled, or expected of you — and deciding whether they still belong in your life.
This work begins with self-acceptance exactly as you are right now.
No amount of self-improvement can make up for a lack of self-acceptance.
From that place, change stops feeling forced — and starts feeling natural.
What is a Women’s Wisdom Circle?
A Women’s Wisdom Circle is a small, intentional group where women slow down, reflect, and see themselves more clearly — without fixing, advising, or performing.
This is not therapy.
It’s not a class full of information.
And it’s not about being told who to be.
It’s a guided space for honest conversation, reflection, and perspective — where awareness leads to real shifts in how you relate to yourself and your life.
What You’ll Gain From This Experience
◈ Radical self-acceptance without pretending or bypassing
◈ Awareness of the rules and roles you’ve been living by that no longer serve you
◈ Tools to interrupt autopilot patterns instead of repeating them by default
◈ Clarity around how you want to live now and what you want your life to look like going forward
◈ A steadier internal compass for making decisions without guilt or over-explaining
This is about uncovering you from all the rubble you’ve been buried under — not reinventing yourself from scratch.
How This Circle Works
▷ Live, interactive sessions (Recordings available if you can’t attend live)
▷ 7 sessions, meeting every other week
▷ February 18 – May 13, 2026
▷ Small, intimate group (10–12 women)
▷ Zoom-based - join from the comfort of your own home
🔖 We’ll use The Selfish Year by Valerie Jones as a light framework and reference point — but the heart of this circle is lived experience, reflection, and conversation, not book discussion
Investment to join is $222
🌟VIP Option available for $333 (Includes one 60-min private coaching session with Coach Heidi)
Spots are limited to keep the circle intimate!
Meet Your Facilitator
Hi! I’m Heidi, and I’ll be your guide and facilitator for this circle.
I’ll help you:
▷See patterns you’ve been too close to recognize
▷Question assumptions that have quietly shaped your choices
▷Explore new perspectives that naturally shift beliefs and behaviors
I won’t tell you who to be.
I’ll help you see more clearly — so you can decide.
This Is Your Invitation
If you’re tired of living by rules you didn’t consciously choose and ready to relate to yourself with more acceptance, clarity, and self-respect, Choosing Me offers a grounded, supportive space to begin living differently — without fixing, forcing, or proving anything.