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      <image:caption>There’s nothing wrong with asking for support. I didn’t go to my first yoga class alone. I went with a friend who had done lots of these classes already and could show me the ropes. I didn’t even know what to wear or that you take your shoes off before you enter the hot room. Psst … You don’t have to start doing anything alone either. I’m here if you ever want to talk!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>When we try to keep the peace or protect ourselves from discomfort, we end up sacrificing our own well-being, and again, we let our needs go unmet, and we lose touch with who we truly are. You deserve more.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I want you to live a life centered around your needs and your joy. To help, I’ve created a FREE guide that gives you specific ways to deal with the primary reasons people use avoidance tactics!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This kind of self reflection can be difficult for people pleasers because you’ve trained your brain not to think about you. If that rings true for you, let’s hop on a free call! I know for me, my whole world changed when I got the guidance I needed to see not only my situation, but myself more clearly.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>By cultivating (false) harmony, people pleasers believe they can secure their place within their social circles and protect themselves from the perceived dangers of isolation or exclusion.  This means the true goal of people pleasers is for us to be safe. It has to do with us, not the happiness of others!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>That in itself was a difficult revelation, but I also discovered that by enabling harmful behaviors with my people pleasing, I was actually controlling the situation by controlling the outcome.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Beliefs like these keep us stuck. We tell ourselves we can’t show who we are, so we people please in order to get outside validation… yet it will never be enough because we aren’t even accepting ourselves. It’s time to set yourself free!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I know, that may seem scary. Good news: you’re in a judgment-free zone. There’s only understanding here. Remember… I’ve been there!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The first step is admitting it’s a problem. The second is knowing that you are not alone. You are not strange. You are not broken. You are worthy of love, support, healing, and of being seen.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Here’s a secret about me: I’ve struggled with procrastination for most of my life. In thinking and prepping to write this blog over the last few weeks, it’s like procrastination has been my shadow… like this cloud or anchor that’s holding me back. It’s definitely giving me fresh, first-hand perspective of procrastination at work in my every day life.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>They are the foundation of our story and a result of our experiences. As such, they can be difficult to change … especially without insight and support. If you’re not getting what you want in your life, let’s have a chat to see how I can help you.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Knowing why doesn’t bring change. Instead, it reinforces negative aspects of ourselves. It doesn’t matter “why” you are who you are.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - The Secrets to Making Radical New Year’s Resolutions That Work! - Asking “what” or “how” questions encourages us to look at things more constructively and actually can provide solutions.</image:title>
      <image:caption>These questions with others can often lead to more open conversations because the other person doesn’t feel the need to defend themselves.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - The Secrets to Making Radical New Year’s Resolutions That Work! - Hypnosis is like rocket fuel for transformation!</image:title>
      <image:caption>That means in 10 weeks, you’ll have created a new neural pathway in your brain that is starting to recognize the new identity you want to embody.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>You didn’t know what you know today: that you’re only in control of yourself.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>They also most likely rely on you to get a lot of the work done, which leaves you feeling like the burden is all on you.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Yet this means that you’re working overtime to gain the approval of others. This causes you to spend time, energy, and money on things that you may end up resenting.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>It kept me in places I didn’t want to stay and told me to put my needs after everyone else’s "rules." This included jobs, marriages, and even friendships that were no longer serving me.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Lies People Pleasers Tell Themselves (&amp;amp; How They Keep Us Stuck) - I have a large list of lies I believed and followed as truths.</image:title>
      <image:caption>If this resonates with you and you’re wondering if a pattern that keeps repeating in your life is caused by a lie you’re believing, reach out. Let’s chat!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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